1. Become More Confident
One of the things you need to do is boost the confidence you have in yourself. This can be a very tricky thing. While you could come across as arrogant with too much confidence, you will certainly come across as awkward if you lack sufficient confidence in yourself. You want to try to maintain a good balance of confidence in yourself. A confident man understands what he brings to the table and some of the weaknesses he may have. For instance, a confident man is going to be capable of making direct eye contact with women and who will approach women he’s interested in without hesitation or fear. The good news is, you don’t have to be fully confident in yourself right away. You can easily ‘fake it until you make it.’ If you need help with building confidence, you could sign up for interpersonal classes around your area or speak to a female escort to practice your dating skills.
2. Be Transparent
One of the things you should be doing when you are approaching and dealing with women is to be transparent. No woman wants to be around someone who is a liar. You need to be fully transparent with women and tell them the truth no matter how small the detail is. No one is going to want to be associated with a liar and it’s only going to make you unattractive to them once they catch you in it. If you don’t have full confidence in some of the more boring aspects of your life, try to find interesting things about yourself that are true. You can focus more on what is interesting about yourself than the boring stuff without lying.
3. Enhance Your Appearance
While you can’t do much about your looks, there are things you can do about the way you present yourself. Truth be told, you don’t need to be the most handsome fellow. Nor do you have to look like you just stepped off the set of The Avengers. You can easily step up your game and improve your looks by improving your style and by focusing more on hygiene and personal grooming.
If you suffer from skin problems like acne, you could seek out a dermatologist. They will be able to help you remedy the problem. Likewise, if you are overweight, you could consider getting yourself a personal trainer to guide you through a weight loss journey.
4. Know What Kinds Of Questions To Ask
You want to try to learn how to conversate with women. There are certain things that you want to avoid when meeting women for the first time. While you can speak about politics or religion if you meet someone in that type of setting, you generally don’t want to hit on these points early on. You also don’t want to go too far into the prospect of children nor do you want to harp on families if no one is bringing them up. Try to stick to interests and try to find some common ground. Always let her speak about her interests freely as it is only going to improve the conversation going forward.
Follow the tips above and you should be able to present yourself as very attractive to prospective women you are looking to date.