Incorporating Personal Elements into Your Wedding Planning

Your wedding day is a reflection of your unique love story, and what better way to celebrate that than by incorporating personal elements into every aspect of your wedding planning? 

While Pinterest boards, Instagram and wedding magazines are great for finding inspiration, it’s essential to make your special day truly yours. While those weddings may look beautiful, there’s more to a wedding than the way it looks – it needs to be yours!

In this guide, we’ll share a few invaluable tips for infusing your personality, love story, and individuality into your wedding, while also avoiding the “Pinterest trap”. 

Use Your Love Story

Begin your wedding planning by revisiting your love story. What makes your journey special? Consider incorporating your first meeting, proposal story, or shared hobbies into your wedding theme. 

Whether it’s a rustic farm wedding that reflects your love for the outdoors or a glamorous affair that speaks to your shared passion for art, let your love story shine through every detail. 

This is a great point in which to involve your partner in the wedding planning process. Even if they aren’t really the creative or the planning type, they will likely feel happy to be included. Ask them about their favorite memories that the two of you share, and find ways to include them in your planning.

Custom Invitations

Your wedding invitation is the first glimpse your guests will have of your big day. Personalize it by incorporating elements that speak to your relationship. 

Add custom illustrations, a special quote that resonates with your love story, or even a photo of you as a couple. This will set the tone for an event that is uniquely yours.

The Venue

Selecting the right venue can make a significant impact on your wedding’s overall ambiance. Look for places that hold personal significance, like the park where you had your first date or a family-owned estate with cherished memories. 

Infusing your wedding with a location that has a story adds depth and meaning to your celebration. 

DIY Decor

Instead of copying generic wedding decor trends, infuse your personal style into the decorations. DIY projects can be a fun way to personalize your wedding. 

Craft centerpieces, photo displays, or wedding favors that showcase your unique tastes and talents. These handmade elements will make your celebration feel warm and intimate, and will likely save you a bundle on expensive bespoke decorations.

If you’re not exactly the DIY type, chances are you know someone who is. A close friend or family member may be happy to help you bring your vision to life – just remember to offer to pay them for their time.

Writing Your Own Vows 

Crafting personalized vows is a beautiful way to express your love and commitment to each other. Share your hopes, dreams, and promises in words that are unique to your relationship. 

Many people read pre-written vows not because they are lazy, but because they simply aren’t very good with words and they don’t want to “get it wrong”.

 However, when it comes to your love story, there’s really no such thing as getting it wrong. Speak from the heart, be earnest, and your partner will understand the love behind your words.

Honor Your Roots

Don’t forget to celebrate your family heritage and traditions. Incorporate elements from both sides of the family, whether it’s a special recipe, a cultural ceremony, or a cherished heirloom. These touches will make your wedding feel like a beautiful blend of your histories.

Show Your Style

While it’s essential to look stunning on your big day, don’t feel pressured to conform to traditional wedding fashion. Choose a wedding dress that reflects your personal style and flatters your figure. Consider customizing your attire with unique accessories or embroidery that holds special significance.

Or, if you don’t want to wear a dress? Then don’t! Pantsuits or well-cut tuxedos can look classy and elegant regardless of gender. The most important thing is that you feel comfortable, beautiful, and happy.

Unique Bridesmaids

Your bridesmaids are your closest friends and family, each with their unique style and personality. Instead of selecting identical dresses for them, allow them to choose dresses that make them feel comfortable and beautiful. 

Offer guidance on a color palette or theme, and let them express their individuality. You can further personalize their attire with unique accessories or custom jewelry to make each one feel special.

If you need help finding the best dresses for your girls, we cannot recommend Bella Bridesmaids enough. They have a massive selection of gowns for every style, season, and body type – as well as custom alterations for a perfect fit.

Avoiding the “Pinterest Trap”

While Pinterest, Instagram, wedding blogs and the like can be a treasure trove of inspiration, it’s crucial not to fall into the trap of trying to recreate someone else’s wedding. 

Use these platforms as tools to spark your creativity, not as a blueprint to mimic. Take the ideas you love and adapt them to your unique style and preferences. Remember, your wedding should be a reflection of you and your partner, not an imitation of someone else’s special day.


Your wedding day is a celebration of love, commitment, and the unique journey you and your partner have shared. It’s an opportunity to infuse every detail with personal touches that make your day truly memorable. 

The best advice we can leave you with is that honest, not imitation, is the best strategy to create the wedding of your dreams.